Saturday 26 January 2013

=)

如果你的女朋友或老婆是護士..
請你認真看完這每一個字...


她工作的時候接不了你的電話...
請不要怪她..
稍一走神就有可能加錯藥..
因為她面對的是生命..


她忙起來的時候回不了你的簡訊..
也請不要怪她..
她可能在核對醫囑或者接收病人..
或正在遭受家屬責難或被護理長無理的刁難..


她在上班的一天下來..
可能沒有時間吃飯..
可能沒有空檔喝水..
或許她正餓著肚渴著嘴..
努力專心的照料每一位病人..
當她說餓了,不要推託..
好好的幫她準備營養的一餐..

可能她每天超時上班..
或許被取消休假..
她領不到加班費,沒有補休..
而她卻無怨無悔的繼續工作..
做為男友或老公的我們,必須在她能休假的時候..
好好的陪伴她,或是帶她出去紓解壓力..


她累的時候請不要跟她吵架鬥嘴..
她在醫院時腦神經已經緊緊的繃了一天..
做為男友或老公的我們,該給他更多鼓勵與支持..


你生病的時候她不能時刻在你身邊照顧你..
更請不要怪她..
因為她照顧的都是比你還要更需要照顧的患者..


或許她站了好幾個小時的手術或急診..
或許她值了夜班..
她煩的時候請不要與她計較..
偶而要幫她按摩按摩..
幫她泡杯熱咖啡或茶給她舒緩一下..


她每天都要注意工作中的每一個細節..
並將資料分析總結...
從細節中發現重大問題..
每天的精神壓力是做為男友無法想像的大..
唯一能讓她放鬆舒心的人只有你..

如果你的女朋友或老婆是護士..
請妳溫柔一點讓她靠在你的肩膀上..
她流淚的時候請耐心的安慰她..


她面對了許多的生離死別..
她見過了許多的悲慘場面..
她不是冷酷無情,也不是不害怕..
她更不是見多了而沒有了感覺..
因為她不能哭,不能慌..
她為了工作能順利的進行..
她為了讓家屬能接受現實..
為了給死者更多的尊嚴..
她必須冷靜..

只有面對心愛的你,她才敢流淚..
因為你才是她心中那位..
讓她感覺最放鬆最有安全感最值得依靠的人..


當她留下淚的時候,甚麼都先不要問不要說..
先給他一個最溫暖的擁抱與最深情的一個吻..
等她情緒緩和下來再慢慢聽她訴說..
聽他訴說時,不要說些大道理更不要說他哪裡做不好..


記得..做為男友的我們更是該給他最大的支持與鼓勵..
千千萬萬不要忘記..除了父母..
她身邊唯一能依靠的就是你..


最後要提醒做為男友或老公的你..
當她生病了,千萬不要忽視她的病情..
就算是小病感冒也好..
也請你好好的呵護她、照顧她..

當你看完這篇文章,不要忘了,她下班回來後..
給她一個擁抱與一個吻..
並且告訴她 : 老婆,辛苦了!!



在這裡祝福全天下的護理人員健康平安


也在這祝福醫護專校的學生們一帆風順
好好的念書,實習要好好學,千萬不要打混過關
因為未來的妳,面對的是生命不是兒戲!!

Thursday 24 January 2013

人心 ???lOvE ???

相爱的人都很难再一起吗?

为什么爱一个人会酱难开口...
是害怕被拒绝,还是害怕失去...

人类复杂的感觉和人性都在带来矛盾...
在对的时间和对的人,却少了第一步...

有时候也许默默地在一旁守护着就不会害怕失去...
以后或许会后悔,会讨厌自己的胆小...
但以往的事总该放下吧 !!!

人心复杂也矛盾... ...
“爱”也一样吧!!!

祝大家都回遇到爱你,你也爱她/他的人...=)





Tuesday 22 January 2013

why ???

It had be a long time of being busy since 2013...
Lots of things need to be done and manage...
Somehow i still can manage with all the stuffs...
Sometime i will choose to IGNORE even just put aside...

Planning to go for a TRIP...
I'm going to enjoy my college life without regrets...

People will still ask me :
>>>Why u choose nursing as ur carrer ?
>>>Don't u think nursing is a tough job ?
>>>Why don't u choose a better carrer wihich can earn more than a nursing job?
Lots of WHY & WHY & WHY ?????

I will still thinking although already one and a half year i had been a STN...
Use to all the condition and trearment... ...

YESTERDAY I get a chance to apply POP for my friendz as part of learning...
I feel proud of it, and it's a good experience which printed in my memory...
A bit not nice but that's my first time of doing it...^^

thx my dear frendZ XD

Saturday 12 January 2013

tEaRs =(

I cried...
Forgeted that i had stop crying when i'm in sad mOOd for half a year...
Everytime i'll try to hold mY tears when the tears try to fAll...
I feel that's a way to protect myself and be tough !!!

BUT, I cried...
Hold for too lonG and had immune the feeling...
Just a month ago, i actually feel super sAd but the tears didn't drop...
I wish to make myself more comfortable and want to cry...
but i failed to force the tears out...
I donno what had happen and wish to maintain it and wont cry forever... ...

Somehow, i had cried for almost half an hour and i feel released...
Life will still be continue after crying treAtment... =)
SmIlE and face all the problemS !!!

fIgHt ! fIgHt ! FigHT !!!
 

Tuesday 8 January 2013

aS usuAl

New semester had started for 1 week and lots of things need to handle and need be prepared to face theM !!!

As usual go to clAss to attend lecture plus fishing in clAss... >o<

After clAss then rest a while >>> diNNer time >>> eXercise timE (badmintOn) ^^

Really need to pray hard that this yeAr i can make a perfect balancE btw academiC and curricuLum... XD

plAn well >>> wOrk hard >>> plAy hard >>> stuDy hard

GaMbAteh to everyone anD enjoy ur lifE without wastinG it =D


THe worLd is sssooo beautiful !!!
Don't waste thE nature nicE view ^^

LifE is short,
SmilE while you still have teeth !!!